When it comes to online dating, your photos do a lot of the heavy lifting, but your bio is what makes someone stop, read, and feel a spark.
A great dating app bio helps your future partner imagine what it might be like to spend time with you. It offers a glimpse into your personality, lifestyle, and what you’re truly looking for. As a photographer specializing in dating app photos in New York City and Beyond, I often help clients not only look their best but also express themselves with confidence and clarity, both in images and words.
Here are my top tips on how to write a good dating app bio, plus common mistakes to avoid.
✅ What to Include in a Strong Dating App Bio
1. Be specific, not generic
Instead of “I love to travel,” try: “Spent last fall hiking in Oregon and dreaming of my next adventure in Italy.”
Details make you memorable and spark conversations.
2. Add a personal quirk or fun fact.
People love seeing personality in small ways:
“I never miss a morning coffee and still believe in handwritten notes.”
It makes you relatable and real.
3. Include a gentle hook
Try a question or invitation:
“Ask me about the time I got lost in a French market.”
“Looking for someone who’ll sing in the car with me.”
These open the door for someone to message you.
4. Keep it warm and positive
Instead of writing what you don’t want, focus on what you’re looking forward to:
“Big fan of early mornings, good books, and people who laugh with their whole heart.”
Positivity is magnetic.
5. Keep it short, clear, and readable
Aim for 3–5 sentences. You don’t need to write a novel—just enough to show who you are.
🚫 What to Avoid in Your Dating App Bio
1. No negativity or long lists of “Don’ts”
(“No drama,” “Don’t message me if…”) creates the wrong tone.
2. Avoid cliches
(“Love to laugh,” “Just looking for my partner in crime”) - they say nothing about you.
3. No group shots, ex mentions, or job titles in your bio
You can mention your passions, but leave your resume for LinkedIn.
4. Skip the self-deprecating jokes
Humor is great, but putting yourself down (“Not sure why I’m here”) can be a turn-off.
5. Don’t leave your Bio blank
Even 2–3 honest lines are better than nothing.
✍️ Dating App Bio Examples
Need inspiration? Here are a few sample bios you can adapt:
Example 1. Warm & Open
“Kindness first, always. I love long walks in Prospect Park, old jazz records, and homemade pasta. Looking for someone who values connection and deep conversation.”
Example 2. Playful & Personal
“I can cook three amazing dishes, and one of them is cereal. Just moved to Tampa—let’s find the best sunset spot. Bonus points if you can beat me at board games.”
Example 3. Direct but Friendly
“Family is big for me. I’m looking for a real partnership—someone who wants to grow together, laugh often, and share everyday magic.”
📸 The Connection Between Your Bio and Your Photos
As a dating app photographer, I always say: your bio and your images should tell the same story.
If your bio says you love being outdoors, let’s capture you walking through the park. If you’re passionate about food, let’s show you at your favorite café. If you’re calm, elegant, and introverted, your visuals should reflect that energy too.
That’s where I come in.
💬 How I Help My Clients
When you book a dating app photoshoot with me in NYC, Jersey City, Chicago, Boston or Tampa Bay, you’re not just getting beautiful images, you’re getting clarity on your dating brand.
Here’s what I offer:
- Pre-shoot conversation to understand your energy, lifestyle, and dating goals
- Photo strategy aligned with your ideal partner and profile vibe
- Suggestions for your dating bio, based on your personality and photos
- Natural, cinematic visuals that feel like you on your best day and looks natural, as your best friend took it with professional camera.
Together, we build a dating presence that’s confident, authentic, and truly you.
